No Responsibility

Over and over you hear, "I tried everything and it just didn't work out," when it comes to dealing with their marriage. What they are really saying is, "I did everything 'I Thought to do." Rarely do they mean they prayed and asked for direction. They usually haven't really talked to their spouse about the situation. Many just want a way out. Most often, the way out is as simple as making an effort to give the spouse what they want and need, or following the mandates of the vows they took when they married.

We have to stop thinking we know it all. We must learn to give what we want to get.